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Hand spanking
Hand spanking is the classic: no implements, no equipment, just a palm and a willing partner. For many people it remains the most exciting form of spanking precisely because it is so personal. Here is what makes it special, how it is done well and how members of Spankthis.co.uk bring it into the chat.
Why the hand is special
When you use your hand, you feel exactly what your partner feels. That instant feedback makes it easy to judge intensity and adjust. The closeness matters too: there is skin contact, warmth and often a position that keeps both people physically connected throughout.
Technique basics
- Cup slightly. A slightly cupped palm makes a louder sound with less sting.
- Vary the spot. Move around rather than hitting one place repeatedly.
- Find a rhythm. A steady pattern, then the occasional surprise.
- Rest between. A hand resting on the skin builds anticipation.
Classic positions
Over the knee is the iconic position, intimate and slightly old-fashioned, which is part of its charm. Bending over the arm of a sofa or the edge of a bed gives the giver more reach. Lying flat across a pillow is comfortable for longer sessions. Choose whatever lets both of you relax.
Describing it in the chat
In text, hand spanking comes alive through small details: the instruction to lie across a lap, the hand resting before it lifts, the count spoken aloud. Members often say the simplest scenes are the most effective, because the reader fills in the rest. Try writing in the present tense and keeping each message short, so the rhythm of the chat mirrors the rhythm of the scene.
Chat only, no paid services
Spankthis.co.uk is a chat site for adults who want to flirt and share fantasies online. We don't arrange paid sexual services, and profiles that offer or ask for them are removed.
Explore more
Curious about implements? Read impact play. Want to try it with your partner? See spanking for couples.
Open with your role
Say early on whether you prefer to give, receive or switch, and mention one scenario that excites you. A clear, friendly first message about what you enjoy gets far more replies than a one-word hello.
How to get started
- Create a free profile with an anonymous username.
- Say what you like so the right members can find you.
- Browse members who are online right now.
- Send a personal message and let the conversation build.
Discreet and safe
Every conversation on Spankthis.co.uk is private between two members. You chat under a username, your email address is never shown and messages stay on the site, so you never have to give out your phone number. Don't share your full name, address or workplace, and never send money to anyone you chat with. The site is for adults aged 18 and over only.
About Spankthis.co.uk
Spankthis.co.uk is a British chat site for adults who are curious about spanking, discipline and impact play. Members from across the UK chat about fantasies, roleplay and the rules they like to play by. Creating a profile and browsing members is free. Every conversation is private and anonymous, and consent always comes first.
Frequently asked questions
Does hand spanking hurt the giver too?
It can make the palm sting after a while, which is one reason people take breaks or switch to a light paddle.
Is the chat anonymous?
Yes. Other members only see your username and whatever you choose to share.
Does it cost anything to join?
No. Creating a profile and browsing members is free.
Does it work on my phone?
Yes. The site works in every modern browser on mobile, tablet and desktop.
How do I block someone?
Click block in the chat or on their profile and they can no longer contact you.
Can I close my account?
Yes. You can cancel your membership and delete your profile at any time.
Keep it classic
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